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Curated breakfast

75-90 min curated breakfast for 8-20 people. Highest signal-to-noise of any format — small enough that everyone speaks, focused enough that conversations go deep. Hard to scale, easy to make memorable.

Timeline
T-30
  • Pick the topic. Phrase it as a provocation, not a survey question.
  • Identify the 12-15 names you most want around the table.
T-14
  • Send personal invitations. Don't email-blast for breakfasts — it kills the cachet.
  • Confirm venue (private dining room, never a public restaurant table).
T-7
  • Send a 1-paragraph 'agenda' to confirmed attendees — what to think about beforehand.
  • Plan a 2-minute opening that names the question + sets ground rules (Chatham House if needed).
day-of
  • Arrive 20 min early. Eat something — you'll be talking, not eating.
  • Open with the question, go around the table for 60 seconds each, then open.
  • Watch the clock — wrap at 90 min sharp. The point is they leave wanting more.
Common mistakes
  • Inviting too many. 20 is the absolute cap; 10-12 is ideal.
  • Not enforcing a question. Breakfasts drift fast without an anchor.
  • Letting it run over. The 'I have to run' moment kills the energy — end strong.
FAQ
Public restaurant or private room?+
Private room, every time. Public breakfasts lose the candor.
Should I record?+
Default: no. Chatham House Rule by default; attendees can quote ideas but not attributions.

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